For most people, finding a fulfilling
career doesn’t happen overnight. Some know exactly what they want to do for a
living, but for many, it’s a long process of trial and error with pitfalls
along the way. Each new job holds a lesson about what is and isn’t wanted in a
fulfilling career, and hopefully a fulfilling career can be found.
But sometimes, you get stuck in a job
that you hate. The paycheck is good, and it’s close to home, but the work is
mindless and you’re unappreciated. You spend most of your day surfing the
Internet, doing the minimum and watching the clock tick slowly. Is it the
company that isn’t a good fit, and you could you be happy somewhere else? Or is
it really your work that is a mind-numbing waste of your potential, and you’ll
feel depressed and unappreciated as long as you do it? Either way, it’s time
for a change.
It is imperative to reflect on a
regular basis, to make sure that your job is aligned with your long-term goals.
The process of trial and error takes awareness. Here are some signs to watch
for, to tell if it’s time to trade your current career for something
else.
1. Your body is telling you something is wrong.
Declining health is the first
indicator that your chosen profession is not right. Are you constantly
exhausted and feel like it’s impossible to get out of bed in the morning, then
feel spent when you get home? Do you get frequent migraines? Have difficulty
concentrating? Chronic illnesses, anxiety and other maladies like heart
disease are often linked directly to stress. Because most of us spend the
majority of our time working, it stands that if you are stressed about work,
your body will start to show it.
2. You’re only there for the money, and the money isn’t enough
anymore.
Are you sacrificing your happiness
for a paycheck? Do you feel empty and bored, and wait for two weeks of vacation
to fulfill your yearly quota of fun? Of course, everyone needs to make money to
survive. Stability is an imperative. But money isn’t everything. Don’t be afraid
to leave a terrible job because the paycheck is sweet. It’s likely more money
will follow when you are personally and professional fulfilled doing what you
love instead of sticking around just for the payout.
3. You daydream about a different career.
Do you find yourself daydreaming at
work about what it would be like to freelance, or front a rock band, or be a
stay-at-home dad? Though there’s nothing wrong with a little speculation and
dreaming of alternatives, constant checking out to wistfully imagine a
preferred future is a sure sign that you need to change careers right away.
4. You’re embarrassed to tell people what you do.
Imagine you’re at a party and someone
you admire asks you what you do for a living. Would you feel embarrassed to
reply, or wish you could tell them something different? In all likelihood you
already know you’re not living up to your own potential, and your embarrassment
is a good indication that now is the time to step toward a career that you’re
proud to claim.
5. You’ve lost your passion.
Has the passion that excited you
when you started your job worn away? Is the thing that you’re really passionate
about shoved aside because your time and energy is being sucked up by your job?
Or, perhaps a boss who sticks to the status quo beat all your good
ideas out of you. Whatever it is that made your passion nosedive, if you have
no passion left, it’s time to seek it out again.
6. You’re always stressed and unhappy.
It’s inevitable that there will be
times where stress gets the best of you, or you feel bad. Everyone has bad
days. But do you feel hopeless just thinking about work? Do you find yourself
constantly griping to your friends about your job, or just feel negative and
unhappy most of the time, especially at work? If you’ve become a bitter person
and don’t recognize yourself anymore, it is definitely time to find a career
that makes you feel happy and alive.
7. You’re apathetic and bored.
Everyone has days where their heart
isn’t in it. Given enough time, any job can cause moments of boredom. But
hopefully, those days are few and far between and there’s mostly a sense of
excitement or at least gratitude for what you’re doing. If you feel constantly
zoned out, wishing you were somewhere else, or just don’t try anymore, it’s
time to go. Find a place that makes you feel enthusiastic for at least the
majority of your time.
With the New Year just around the
corner, there’s excitement about what the next year holds. If you’re not
content with your job now, take advantage of the fresh start and make a change.
Seek out help to change your career, and start saving a buffer for changing
jobs or freelancing. If you can stay in your current job and make it more
fulfilling, now is a great time to make changes, before January reviews,
bonuses, and promotions. It may be difficult now, but happiness is just around
the corner.
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